Giving a gift
Receiving a gift
Open it in front of them, react warmly, and thank them twice: now, and again when you leave.
What to bring
- Something from your hometown: local sweets, coffee, or a small souvenir. It starts a conversation.
- Flowers for their mom. Skip orange marigolds in Mexico: they're the flower of Día de Muertos.
- A dessert or a bottle for the dinner, if the family drinks. Ask your partner.
- A printed photo of the two of you, in a frame, for the grandparents.
- Keep it modest. A very expensive gift on a first visit can make parents uncomfortable.
Christmas gift traditions
- Midnight on Nochebuena: many families open gifts at midnight on December 24. In Colombia, they're often brought by el Niño Dios.
- Día de Reyes, January 6: in Mexico and Puerto Rico, children get gifts from the Three Kings. In Mexico, families share a rosca de reyes, and whoever finds the tiny baby figure in their slice hosts a tamales party on February 2. In Puerto Rico, kids leave grass in a shoebox for the kings' camels.
- The gift exchange: many families draw names for an intercambio (Mexico) or amigo secreto (Colombia). Ask the price limit.
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What does un detalle mean?
A small, thoughtful gift. Es un detalle means it's just a little something, and ¡Qué detalle! means how thoughtful.
How do you say thank you for the gift in Spanish?
Muchas gracias por el regalo. ¡Qué detalle! (Thank you so much for the gift. How thoughtful!)
What should I bring when I meet my partner's parents?
Something small: a treat from your hometown, flowers for their mom, or a dessert for the meal. Thoughtful beats expensive.
When do Latino families open Christmas presents?
Many open them at midnight on December 24. In Mexico and Puerto Rico, children also get gifts on January 6, Día de Reyes.